SOOOOO many women aren't "physical" virgins anyway...I didn't bleed my first time. My hymen prolly broke during gymnastics or something. Or tampons, or playing with a vibe.
I linked this to the guy I'm involved with and we were discussing it...we both think it's probably more likely to be fetish related than a woman trying to deceive her partner? Some people have a thing about virginity, I imagine it could be a turn on for some guys to have an experience that mimics taking virginity, by breaking the hymen. Likewise, it might be a turn on for a woman to have an experience mimicking losing her virginity, by breaking the hymen.
Maybe it's just the hopeful side of me that thinks it's more fetish related than deception related, though...I don't like thinking that people could be like that. :/
For the price, I'm half tempted to get it and use it just to see if there is an appeal for myself or my partner (then again, the only person I'm gettin it on with lately lives far away, and we only get it on over the phone, so if I bought it, it might be a damn long time before I could use it).
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Date: 2008-12-30 12:38 am (UTC)I linked this to the guy I'm involved with and we were discussing it...we both think it's probably more likely to be fetish related than a woman trying to deceive her partner? Some people have a thing about virginity, I imagine it could be a turn on for some guys to have an experience that mimics taking virginity, by breaking the hymen. Likewise, it might be a turn on for a woman to have an experience mimicking losing her virginity, by breaking the hymen.
Maybe it's just the hopeful side of me that thinks it's more fetish related than deception related, though...I don't like thinking that people could be like that. :/
For the price, I'm half tempted to get it and use it just to see if there is an appeal for myself or my partner (then again, the only person I'm gettin it on with lately lives far away, and we only get it on over the phone, so if I bought it, it might be a damn long time before I could use it).